Overthinking

So today’s post is for those who are like me an over-thinker and also for those who think over-thinking is a bad or irrelevant thing.

OVERTHINKING just a simple word but still impart a lot of meanings. I mean over-thinking can ruin your life (according to everyone) or can make your life (according to me). I mean do we know what overthinking is or how it starts or how can it ruin or make your life. So to me.

Overthinking is just over-analyzing things, giving turns to a story that never existed, imagining scenarios in your mind that never existed or is never Gonne happen, thinking of different outcomes of a fight that happened millions of years ago. In short, over-thinkers carry a world of their own inside their heads.

But do we know why people overthink? Do we?

So the answer is NO.

We don’t know why people overthink. We just assume that this is their problem to think too much. To make their problems even bigger. They like to over-think, over-analyze things they want to increase their problems. But tell me a thing if you have a wound do u want it to heal, or do you want it to become cancer. No one wants their problem to enlarge, no one wants to suffer, no one likes to increase their problem except if they are a sadist.

No one is born over-thinker, never, and nor a person thinks

” Mann I want to be an over-thinker, this is my heart’s desire”

nope, surroundings, or circumstances make one over-thinker.

Being alone makes one over-thinker, having no one to share things makes them over-thinker. But again always remember

“BEING ALONE AND BEING LONELY ARE TOO DIFFERENT THINGS”

We are usually surrounded by a lot of people but we are not able to share our problems with them because we fear, we fear that they are going to judge us, we fear of how they react, we fear to lose them, etc. we usually don’t have people to confined and are so-called “society” from childhood teach us to teach with our problems on our own. And so people think to minimize their problems, they try to fight them if not then virtually, imaginarily and slowly this thinking turns into over-thinking.

But just for a second think, think how grand those brains our which can imagine things others can not. Think if an over-thinker productively uses his/her imagination what can he/she do. Think.

At last, I want to end with a small creation of mine.

“mirror mirror on the wall Who has the greatest imagination of all The one who over-thinks a lot”

-Rami

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